Does Your Child Really Need To Struggle With A Fear Of The Dentist?
It seems like a childhood fear of the dentist is one of those common issues that come true just because we assume it will be. The same as how we assume all children dislike eating vegetables, or that dogs and cats are going to be mortal enemies. That’s not the case at all for the most part, like with anything, it’s about how you introduce the two “opposing” considerations to each other.
While we’d love to write a post about dog-cat reconciliation, that’s not the focus for today. Let’s skewer the topic of dentist fear once and for all, because as far as we’re concerned, dentists have worked too hard and only cared about our health over the years, so it pays to ensure our children aren’t immediately hostile to them upon our visits.
Let’s discuss a few good ways to prevent that fear before it begins.
Learn To Frame The Visit In Friendly Terms
Instead of saying “we have to go to the dentist to make sure your teeth don’t rot,” try something like “we’re going to visit Dr. Friendly today so they can count your super strong teeth and make sure they’re sparkly clean”.
It really makes a difference how you talk about it because kids pick up on everything you know, and if you act like it’s a big scary issue or a punishment/chore you have to deal with, then they’re definitely going to think it’s an issue.
Keep it light and positive and maybe even a little bit fun, emphasizing the good stuff like a healthy smile and fresh breath. It’ll help them see it as a normal part of taking care of themselves rather than something to dread. You could even read them a book about a friendly dentist or watch a cartoon where the characters have a good time at their checkups, as many kids shows have. It may help.
Find A Good, Understanding Dentist
Most are great, but look for someone who has a gentle approach and a calm demeanor.
They could be someone who takes their time explaining things in a kid friendly way and doesn’t rush through the appointment. It’s also a good idea to find a practice that’s set up for children with maybe some toys in the waiting room or fun decorations on the ceiling to distract them a touch, because if your child feels comfortable and safe with their dentist they’re much more likely to have a positive experience.
Family dentists are also a great choice, as they may be happy to see everyone, or multiple siblings over the course of the appointment.
Match Your Dentist Trip With Other, Exciting Experiences That Day
After the appointment, you could promise a trip to the park, or a visit to their favorite cafe, or maybe even a small toy they’ve been wanting. This helps create a positive association with the dentist visit itself because they know something good is coming right after, not as a bribe of course, but just so it’s not just about the dental work but about the whole fun experience that day.
It’ll make the dentist a stop on the way to something awesome, which should help them actively look forward to the day ahead, not wanting to ruin it. That’s just how a child’s mind works sometimes.
With this advice, you’re sure to stop your child feeling afraid of the dentist.
