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10 Simple Ways to Show Kids You Love Them Everyday

Life gets crazy!  In my house, I have three children running from school to sports, then finishing up homework, squeezing in time to run around with friends, and so much more sometimes in a single day.  There have been days that once dinner and baths were done, and my children were tucked in to bed, I collapsed on the couch in exhaustion with a bit of mommy guilt.

Some days it felt like we had been running none stop all day.  We were doing things they had begged to do but I still wasn’t sure if I had really connected with them in those little ways that make them grin and know they are what makes my heart beat.

I decided to start trying to do little things throughout the day that would make them sporadically feel special.  Here are 10 of my favorite simple ways to show my munchkins I love them though out the day.
10 Simple Ways to Show Your Kids You Love Them

  1. Draw on the bathroom mirror.  My oldest is in middle school and often by the time I get up with the twins, he has already woken up and got ready.  He sees the bathroom mirror before he sees me, so I love sporadically grabbing a marker and drawing silly faces on the mirror to make him smile first thing in the morning.
  2. Surprise them at school for lunch.  My tween has explicitly told me NOT to do this to him, but my elementary aged kids love it.  Every so often I will whip up some of their favorite foods, the kind that wouldn’t keep well in a lunch box, and surprise them in the cafeteria.  Their school also lets students sit outside to eat when parents come, adding to that “I’m special” feeling.
  3. Leave something special in their pockets.  We lay out the kids outfits the night before school, so it is easy for me to sneak treats or pictures into there pockets.  One day I knew my oldest was stress about a big test, so I put a small picture of us in his pocket with a note saying “I was proud of him no matter what”.
  4. Say yes when they are expecting a no.  You know, when they have already eaten half your kitchen and are asking for a second helping of dessert, expecting a no.  Or when they want to stay up late an watch a movie and you were already counting down the minutes till bedtime.  Every once in a while, say yes to the usually no’s.
  5. Call them and chat.  If I have errands or work to do on the weekends or after school, the kids are home with dad.  When I am walking from place to place, I will often call and chat with each of them throughout the day. 
  6. Listen to them read.  Now that my kids are older, they are usually off reading to themselves but sometimes I crawl into bed with them or snuggle up on the couch and tell them to read the story to me.  This gives us great one on one time, plus, it helps them master reading out loud.
  7. Bake something yummy.  When I have some extra time in the day, I will surprise them with one of their favorite treats as an afternoon snack.
  8. Build them up by bragging about them.  When I know, they are within ear shot, I will make sure to build up some of their accomplishments and brag about them on the phone to Grammy or to my husband.  With an “Anthony is doing amazing in school, I am so proud” or “Lilly has been being so kind at school, she has such a caring heart”.  
  9. Put the phone away and get off the computer.  As a work at home mom, it is easy for me to sometimes loose sense of time and get caught up in the middle of writing or answering emails, and of course the social media wormhole.  I’ve started setting an alarm 10 minutes before the kids come in from school so that when they walk in the door, they see me, not me staring at a screen.
  10. Pack their school lunch with Love Notes.  By the time the kids sit down in the cafeteria for lunch, half their day has passed.  They could be having a great day, they could also have gotten a bad grade on a test, got into a disagreement with a friend, forgot their locker combination, or just be having crumby day.  So, putting a little note of encouragement in their lunch could lift them up right when they need it.  DOLE Mixations® are now a signature in my kid’s lunch boxes.  Not only are they a delicious combination of smooth fruit sauce mixed with chunks of real fruit, they also have a customizable package that lets you draw fun designs and personal messages on the lids.  This makes sending an unexpected pick-me-up simple and yummy.


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What little ways do you use to show your children you love them through out the day?

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30 Comments on 10 Simple Ways to Show Kids You Love Them Everyday! #MixInImagination

  1. Megan 'Kinney' Marlowe
    March 9, 2017 at 6:39 pm (2 years ago)

    I love this! I always love sending my son to school with love notes in his lunch!

  2. Ashley Swift
    March 9, 2017 at 8:49 pm (2 years ago)

    Awww these are so cute.

  3. Nicole Meyer
    March 9, 2017 at 11:46 pm (2 years ago)

    Adorable! Love your site and definitely the idea of notes…so genius!

  4. Tasha Lawrence
    March 10, 2017 at 3:12 am (2 years ago)

    I am a firm believer in spreading the love. The kids love little love notes and such.. makes them feel so special!

  5. Lawrence Hamilton
    March 10, 2017 at 4:53 am (2 years ago)

    These are some pretty awesome ideas!

  6. Sandy N Vyjay
    March 10, 2017 at 8:30 am (2 years ago)

    Such a cute way to motivate the kids

  7. Drake Conan
    March 10, 2017 at 8:48 am (2 years ago)

    This is so helpful to motivate them everyday! Great post!

  8. Jenna Grace Smith
    March 10, 2017 at 1:28 pm (2 years ago)

    Simple gesture can express love 🙂

  9. Jess Faulkingham VA
    March 10, 2017 at 6:27 pm (2 years ago)

    This is great!! Thanks for the tips!

  10. Kaitlin Marie
    March 10, 2017 at 7:29 pm (2 years ago)

    Love this! It gets harder the older they get.

  11. Paige Strand
    March 10, 2017 at 7:53 pm (2 years ago)

    Thats nice

  12. CM Nico
    March 10, 2017 at 8:17 pm (2 years ago)

    That is nice

  13. Amber Ricks
    March 10, 2017 at 8:32 pm (2 years ago)

    I absolutely love #8!

  14. Shannon Graham
    March 10, 2017 at 10:39 pm (2 years ago)

    It truly is simple to show them how much they’re loved.

  15. Glenda Kruse
    March 10, 2017 at 10:49 pm (2 years ago)

    I always love showing my kids how much I love them.

  16. Becca Wilson
    March 10, 2017 at 11:26 pm (2 years ago)

    It only takes something simple

  17. Alison Rost
    March 11, 2017 at 1:05 am (2 years ago)

    Awww .. sending to my son and daughter for my grandchildren!

  18. Jessie Han
    March 11, 2017 at 2:20 am (2 years ago)

    All are cute for me. 😀

  19. Fatima D Torres
    March 11, 2017 at 2:58 am (2 years ago)

    This is something I need to do more of.They know I love them, but I don’t show it as often as I should

  20. Nicole Escat
    March 11, 2017 at 8:51 am (2 years ago)

    Looks great

  21. Chelle Dizon
    March 12, 2017 at 12:15 pm (2 years ago)

    This is really awesome. Thank you so much for this!

  22. Ewa Wu
    March 12, 2017 at 2:35 pm (2 years ago)

    Great ideas 🙂

  23. Becca Holloman
    March 12, 2017 at 4:50 pm (2 years ago)

    Sometimes all they need is that little something

  24. Maria Han
    March 15, 2017 at 7:54 am (2 years ago)

    Cool. Thanks for sharing.

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